Archive for November, 2008

Mola Exhibit at Dartmouth College – One More Week

Sunday, November 30th, 2008

If you have not yet had a chance to visit the mola exhibit at Dartmouth’s Hood Museum, one week remains for you to do so. After December 7, you will have missed the opportunity. Museum hours are 10-5, Tuesday>Saturday; Wednesday 10 a.m.-9 p.m., and Sunday 12 p.m. – 5 p.m. Closed on Mondays.

Here is a link to read more about it: Mola Exhibit

If you want some background information, or would like more details about Molas, after you visit the exhibit, please visit our site: A History of Molas

Patricia Cummings

Ocean Born Mary Legend Lives On

Sunday, November 30th, 2008

The public loves a good story especially when it involves hidden gold in the backyard, a visiting ghost, and the tale of a newborn born at sea on a pirate ship. The story of “Ocean Born Mary” is a tall one, and it is explained very well by J. Dennis Robinson in his 2001 column As I Please: “The Truth About Ocean Born Mary.”

Supposedly, Mary lived in a home in Henniker, New Hampshire (although that is not true – her son lived there). As my sister lived in nearby Hillsboro, I remember being brought to the place for a scary and tintillating tour of the house just before the site was shut down for tours in 1965, after the owner’s death. On a whim, today, I did a “Google search” and came up with the following article by Robinson that you won’t want to miss:

http://www.seacoastnh.com/arts/please042101.html

You know, when regular, run-of-the-mill folks hear voices and make up stories, they are said to be having delusions. However, when businessmen try to turn a buck on a hoax, we call them entrepreneurs. Go figure.

Robinson closes his article with this statement, “Drip, drip, drip, the legend pounds away at the facts, one drop at a time, eroding away the annoying bits of truth and keeping the legend alive.”

At any rate, I hope that you will enjoy the article as much as I did! If you pay attention, you will see that the story involves textiles.

Owner, Quilter’s Muse Publications

The Essence of Christmas …

Saturday, November 29th, 2008

For the most part, the television set has been turned off for the past two days, except for tuning in to watch “Home Alone,” a movie that is destined to become a classic. There is something about repetition during the holidays that is comforting. For example, my (late) mother always served orange sherbet topped with cranberry juice, in a tall glass, and with a straw, and ice tea spoon, just like clockwork, every Thanksgiving and every Christmas. Even though we never had that treat at any other time, it is a wonder we didn’t, as it is so refreshing.

There are just so many traditions that my family adhered to, over the years, some of those lost with the passing of my own parents, and other customary habits changed for other reasons. When I was a child, my mother and I would take the bus and travel to downtown Manchester, New Hampshire to do last minute Christmas shopping. At that time, during the 1950s, the huge malls on the outskirts of town had not yet been built. We would go into department stores such as Leavitt’s, Pariseau’s, and Hill’s, and there was a wonderful hardware store called Moreau’s where mother would find all sorts of high quality dishes, china, and casserole dishes to buy as gifts. Most all of these little shops on Elm Street closed their doors, years ago.

With snow drifting down, on Christmas Eve, we would run into aunts who were picking up a few last minute gifts. We would stop at Woolworth’s Five and Dime store where one could actually buy a few things for a nickel or a dime. We’d go up to the soda fountain located at one end of the store, and have a hot fudge sundae. I can visualize the thick, creamy fudge, like no other, even to this day.

Ultimately, Christmas was about going to church. Often we attended Midnight Mass when I was old enough to stay up that late. My brother, Jack, was always eager for presents, and so, the family instituted a habit of each of us opening one present before leaving for church. The gifts were all very practical ones, as I recall, mainly clothing. Oh yes, I did receive dolls, ice skates, and toys, but the parents of four children wanted all of us to have warm flannel nightgowns, or new sweaters, or new flannel shirts, or new cozy socks, for the long winter. The emphasis was on giving, and the gifts were never measured as to who got more than someone else. Giving was done freely, and each gift was from the heart.

Zoom from the 1950s to today. What a sad day it was today. A temporary worker at Walmart was trampled to death for trying to hold back a mob of 200 would-be, crazed shoppers. A pregnant woman was injured in a similar circumstance. This shocking news is proof certain that the idea of Christmas has really gotten out of control. Is any material item worth killing a fellow human being, someone who will be missed by his loved ones during the holidays?

I can’t help but think of the simplicity of the first Christmas. If you are a Christian, then you believe that in a lone manger, the Prince of Peace came into this world on a starry night, and was laid on straw. Traveling from afar, the Wise Men arrived to pay homage to the Christ Child and to bring Him the gifts of incense, gold, and mryhh. Fast forward to 2008. Instead of giving gold in homage, the idea is for merchants to get as much gold as possible, by holding “sales” at impossible hours, such as 2 a.m., and by carrying only a limited number of advertised models so as to dupe the public into spending even more money by buying something more expensive.

There seems to be something inherently wrong, and just plain crazy about all of this. In trying to put more fun into Christmas with high tech and electronic items, people totally miss the point of celebrating the holiday in a more homespun sense. I really can’t explain the Spirit of Christmas to anyone else, as I perceive it to be. I can only say that something is fundamentally wrong with what is happening in America today. Since I can not change other people or the ways of the world, in general, I guess I will have to go work on my quilt. It’s the only option for maintaining sanity in an insane world. As I started to say, the essence of Christmas is love.

Patricia Cummings

Remembering the Town Poor in the 1800s

Thursday, November 27th, 2008

When I first moved to Concord, New Hampshire, I was always fascinated by an old, rickety, unpainted house known as the “Poor Farm.” It was falling down in ruins and begged to be just torn down, just for being an eyesore. Then, someone came along, bought the place, and fixed it up into apartments. So, it stands, on the corner of Peabody St. and North State St., and has found usefulness again.

The farm once contained more than 200 acres, that included “brook land” and “wood land.” The purchase of the farm by the town was an attempt to ward off the practice of auctioning off people for whom the city would otherwise be responsible.

Those who lived at the farm were “orphans, criminals, the insane, the infirm and the destitute.” The New Hampshire Asylum for the Insane was instituted in 1842, at a time when those with mental afflictions were greatly feared by the general public. Ironically, those who were deemed “incurable” were returned to the Poor Farm. There everyone had to pitch in and help do chores as best they could.

In 1866, an Orphan’s Home was built in Concord, and in 1868, a local House of Corrections was constructed, both of these measures taking the heat off of the Poor House population. By 1883, the six last residents of the place were transferred to the care of Merrimack County.

“Progress has all but wiped clean the pastures and buildings of the Poor Farm, erasing with it the faceless hundreds who tilled its gardens, cut its timbers, and quarried granite in their endless and often futile struggles for survival and dignity.”

All of the above information was gathered from an entry in Village of West Concord New Hampshire, 1726-1976: A Bicentennial Project of The West Concord Villagers, 1976.

On this Thanksgiving Day, let us remember the poor, the destitute, the cast-offs of society, those who are estranged from their families and sometimes from themselves, those who hunger for hope, and pray for relief from their sufferings. Let us be ever mindful of our own blessings, and remember that we are no better than the least among us. For we all are born and we all shall die, and that which we do in between those two major events is what we call Life. Make your life a good one, as there are no second chances.

Patricia Cummings

Count Your Blessings While Remembering the Homeless

Wednesday, November 26th, 2008

This morning, I watched part of a television program that showed several television personalities going to kitchens that serve food to the homeless. This week they helped to serve turkey dinners. One of the stars said that doing so was a humbling experience that made her realize the old saying, “There, but for the grace of God, go I.” How true that statement is.

For the most part, we live our comfortable lives and we do not give much thought to those less fortunate, until we see them on the street. For awhile, my home town was rumored to be giving out free, one-way tickets to Florida to homeless individuals, perhaps thinking that at least there, they wouldn’t freeze to death. Then, the practice was deemed illegal.

Every city in America has them, and most people fear the homeless because they do not want to become their victims. Unfortunately, the homeless are often not just homeless, many are also mentally ill. In fact, many of them are veterans, drug abusers, or victims of domestic violence. Some have permanent a mental incapacity that is untreated, and sometimes, innocent children are somehow dragged into the dismal situation of living in shelters.

While homelessness is a situation we would all like to rectify, it is a complex social phenomena. Some of those without a home, prefer that lifestyle. They do not want to live a confined life, or adhere to the expectations of society. All we can do, in such a situation, is to offer what we can. The Ugly Quilts program, begun as a ministry in Pennsylvania, uses collected fabrics, batts or old blankets, quilt blocks, panels, and other unwanted supplies, to make quilts that can be rolled up during the day, but that are no so pretty that the recipient would be a victim of someone wanting to steal his “sleeping bag.” That is one way to help: Donate Goods or Dollars, or Help to Organize an Effort to Make Ugly Quilts for your community.

A wonderful file with all kinds of links about the Ugly Quilt program

Let’s not forget the power of prayer. While you are saying prayers of thanksgiving around your table on Thursday, think of the rest of the world’s people and offer a silent prayer for all who are suffering. No matter how little we may think we have, we surely have much more than we realize. We, as humans, are never satisfied, but we need to be appreciative of the people and the things that we are able to enjoy. The simple things are always the best, including the love and nurturing of all things living with which and with whom we interact in our daily lives.

There have always been the poor. In my neighborhood, in the nineteenth century there was, indeed, the Poor Farm where people who were dirt poor or mentally disturbed, etc. could live and work to eek out a meager subsistence. At least there the opportunity for pride in the work that was done to rise above adverse circumstances.

Today, we have no Poor Farms. In fact, in this neck of the woods, we have very few farms at all. For years, a man who was severely mentally ill walked the streets with a shopping cart filled with the sum total of his earthly belongings: a suitcase, a can opener, cans of spaghetti, and a baseball bat. He used to sleep in the big sandbox in the Legislative Garage. He has not been seen around here for several years. Perhaps he died. He would annoy local businesses by using their facilities for his basic needs and to wash up. His claim to fame was in having killed his wife. Somehow, his homelessness seemed like a self-inflicted purgatory. People like that need our compassion, not our scorn. They always live a tormented life made crazy with guilt.

We wish you much happiness this Thanksgiving week. We all have so much for which to give thanks.

Here is a song for the occasion:
http://www.quiltersmuse.com/let_us_break_bread_together.htm

Best wishes,

Patricia Cummings

Poetry by Patricia Cummings

Tuesday, November 25th, 2008

Forest Guardians

by Patricia Cummings

Silent sentinels of the dawn
the Firs in misty quiet stand,
surveying the lake’s vapors rising.

Their silhouettes salute the not-so-distant shore
in the early morning dew,
as the crow flies and caws, unfettered by man.

This poem was written while traveling south from St. John, Canada in 2006, on our way home to New Hampshire. In the early morning fog, the regal Fir trees in all their splendor, along waterways did remind me of sentinels. I can still smell the pleasant, aromatic Balsam firs that reminded us so of Christmas, and seeing the lone Heron fishing on the shores of the Bay of Fundy. Below, another Heron in Vermont, fishing in a river.
Heron

The sights and sounds of the North Country reside in one’s heart, once experienced. The eagle in the rain, hunkered down, on the beach, only to soar out of sight, minutes later … the moose crossing a field … these are scenes I like to ponder. Just me and my chosen lifelong companion, my best friend, taking this all in. Yes, I want to remember … good times, like these.

For more poetry see: http://www.quiltersmuse.com/poems_by_Patricia_Cummings.htm

Manchester Historic Association Announces Activities

Tuesday, November 25th, 2008

Newsletter sent to members and other friends of the Manchester Historic Association, Nov. 24, 2008.

Enjoy the Holiday Season with family and friends at the Millyard Museum!

The Association is holding its annual Holiday Open House on Friday, December 5 from 4:00 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. This year’s event will feature a silent auction including many affordable items, such as tickets to sporting events, gift certificates to local businesses, gift baskets, jewelry, and much more. Enjoy a cup of cheer with your friends and neighbors and support the Manchester Historic Association at the same time. The Museum Shop will feature an assortment of gift items and books related to Manchester history. Several authors will be on hand for book signings. Also, there will be a selection of used books for sale on various topics. Our Amoskeag Steam Fire Engine 2008 ornament will be available in an engraved box. Don’t forget that members receive at least a 10% discount on museum shop sales. Admission is free and the event is open to the public.

For an updated list of auction items, click on our website www.manchesterhistoric.org.

We are still looking for silent auction items! Won’t you consider donating something fun and interesting, or possibly your company would donate goods or a gift certificate? Donated items should be new (or truly “antique”) and portable. This is great way to help out as all proceeds will benefit the operations of the Millyard Museum and the Research Center. Donors will be gratefully acknowledged on our website and at the event. If you are interested, please call (603) 622-7531.

This year our “Hands on History” Family Programs are sure to have something to please and entertain everyone in your family. The programs will take place from 1:00 p.m.-3:30 p.m. in the Discovery Gallery. Admission is included with the regular admission to the Millyard Museum. Old fashioned board games will be set up at each program. We request that children be accompanied by a parent or guardian. Here is the schedule:

Friday, November 28 & Saturday, November 29, 2008
Make edible “gingerbread” houses out of graham crackers, and make holiday wrapping paper, cards and ornaments to take home.

Friday, December 26, and Saturday, December 27
1:00 p.m.-3:30 p.m.
Enjoy a quiet family afternoon with special storytimes featuring Native American legends and French-Canadian folk tales.

Wednesday, December 31, 2008
Finish off the year with an entertaining afternoon in the Discovery Gallery. Make festive party hats and party favors to take home for your New Year’s Eve celebration!

Friday, January 2, and Saturday, January 3, 2009
Start the New Year on a fun note by playing our educational and challenging “gallery searches,” with special prizes.

Sadly, our changing exhibit, “Nous sommes ici! We are here! A Celebration of Manchester’s Franco-American Heritage” will close on Saturday, January 3. Please come by to see some wonderful objects and images that reflect the history of Manchester’s Franco-Americans. Did you know that the exhibit includes a beautiful quilt that was pieced together with scraps of gingham and printed fabric woven in the Amoskeag Millyard? We thank our generous contributors to this exhibit: the New Hampshire Legends of Hockey and St. Mary’s Bank.

Please note that the Millyard Museum and the Research Center will both be closed on Thanksgiving Day, and that the Research Center will also be closed on this coming Saturday, November 29.

For additional information on our programs, please check out our website at www.manchesterhistoric.org

We will hope to see you soon!
 
Aurore Eaton
Interim Executive Director
Manchester Historic Association
Millyard Museum – 200 Bedford Street – Manchester, NH 03101
Research Center – 129 Amherst Street – Manchester, NH 03101
(603) 622-7531 ext. 305
www.manchesterhistoric.org

New! Colcha article

Sunday, November 23rd, 2008

I just published an article about Las Colchas of New Mexico. They are one of the best kept secrets of the southwest. I was unable to acquire any images (yet), but there are links that bring you to other sites that may have additional ones. This article has been two years in the making (in my mind, that is). I have been acquiring items, as I could, as far as facts and details in pamphlets, books, etc. I have yet to see an actual colcha. I believe it would be worth traveling to the area. Santa Fe is known as a haven for artists and those who support the arts. I like the fact that colchas have multi-cultural influences. Enjoy!

Las Colchas

http://www.quiltersmuse.com/colchas_of_New_Mexico.htm

Patricia Cummings

What Dessert Will Be On Your Thanksgiving Menu?

Saturday, November 22nd, 2008

A traditional English dessert that requires putting all the ingredients together and then milking a cow into the mix is “Syllabub.” I like the name. Here is the recipe I have seen:

Quart of sweet cider
Refined sugar
Grate nutmeg into it
Milk cow into it
Add 1/2 more of cream

Now, based on that recipe, I would hardly want to try making this. Also, I do not have a cow, a major drawback, if the recipe is to be followed exactly.

Looking at Wikipedia, I found this entry for Syllabub.

I noticed that there is a recipe for Lemon Syllabub. I wondering if one is instructed to squeeze the lemon juice right off the tree. Hmmm … Oh well, I amuse myself with such clever thoughts. LOL

Patricia Cummings

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Syllabub

Remick Museum Victorian Christmas, December 7, 2008

Thursday, November 20th, 2008

REMICK MUSEUM HOLDS ANNUAL VICTORIAN CHRISTMAS, SUNDAY, DECEMBER 7, 2008, 1-4PM.

Remick Country Doctor Museum & Farm will hold its annual special event, Victorian Christmas, on Sunday, December 7, 2008, from 1-4pm. This year, our museum interpreters will prepare a sampling of traditional cakes, including Spice Cake, Honey Cake, Christmas Pound Cake, Pound Cake with Cherry Sauce, Brown Sugar Pound Cake, and Nun’s Cake.

Museum Interpreter, Virginia Taylor, explains, “We’ve searched far, and have found recipes dating back almost 200 years. Some of these cakes may not seem all that special to us, but they would have been considered something special at that time. We’re used to having any and all ingredients available to us whenever we want them. History tells us that this was not always the case. Housewives had to skimp and save in order to be able to afford extras for ‘fancy’ baking.”

Take a horse drawn wagon or sleigh ride with Brandy and Lady, Remick Museum’s own Belgian mare horses, weather permitting. In the Museum’s main building, make Christmas crafts, including cornucopia ornaments, evergreen door swags, and origami gift boxes.
The Captain Enoch Remick House will serve sugar cookies, warm from the Glenwood oven. The House will beautifully decorated, dotted with toys that once belonged to Dr. Edwin Crafts Remick and his wife, Marion.

Admission is $5 per person. Friends of Remick Museum receive at least one free admission to Victorian Christmas depending on her/his membership level. You can apply your admission fee to Historic Thanksgiving to a membership to the Friends of Remick Museum, and receive free general admission and free admission to special events for a whole year!

While at Victorian Christmas, visit the newly expanded Remick Museum Store stocked with American-made country gifts and toys, including hand-made beeswax candles, Henderson Redware pottery, books, and historic toys.

Come enjoy some good food, a warm fire, country crafts, and a healthy dose of history. For more information on Victorian Christmas, call the Museum at (800) 686-6117 or
(603) 323-7591 or visit our website at www.remickmuseum.org.

Remick Museum is located at 58 Cleveland Hill Road, Tamworth, NH. Victorian Christmas is sponsored by Kokopelli of New Hampshire, 2420 Route 16, West Ossipee, NH.

Victorian Christmas is sponsored by:
Kokopelli of New Hampshire
2420 Route 16, West Ossipee, NH
(603) 539-4700
 

Beautiful World War I Pillow

Monday, November 17th, 2008

A beautiful photo of a World War I pillow has come to our attention. The individual who wrote wanted to know more about it. Here is the photo Please click on the link to view.

I am so glad that Kim B. rescued this pillow from being an attic discard. As you can see it is quite lovely. There is some vertical shredding of the silk, not uncommon in this era. Fold lines are also not uncommon to see after so many years of storage. Otherwise, the colors are vibrant and the message, “The Spirit of Liberty” compelling, accompanied by Lady Columbia holding a flag, and a separate wreath, as well as an Eagle, the symbol of our Democracy.

World War 1 pillows are distinctive. I hope that you will pick up a copy of The Quilter magazine and read more about them. Our article is in the January 2009 issue. Thanks to Kim for sending this wonderful example of a patriotic pillow.

Patricia Cummings

“Trees Standing in a Naked Row”

Monday, November 17th, 2008

Again, the trees have shed their leaves and “are standing in a naked row,” (Joni Mitchell), a harbinger of what is yet to come: snow! Some years we luck out in New Hampshire and have snow for Christmas. Sometimes, we even have snow in November, so it could be arriving any time now. Snow is so beautiful. I used to love to do cross-country skiing. It is easier to do so on groomed paths rather than, say, on the fields of the old farm where I once lived.

The old-timers always claimed that houses were warmed after the first hard snow, the snow providing a natural effect of insulation.

Around here, the beautiful snow is in my backyard, and eventually, due to traffic, the utterly yucky, brown snow is by the street. I can’t help but wonder how pleasant it used to be on this wide, Elm-lined street, to see horse and carriage go by, and in the winter, horse and sleigh. I take interest in the fact that the Honorable Daniel Webster used to ride past my home to reach his residence north of here. There is a photo of his conveyance in Ruth Finley’s book about The Lady of Godey’s.

For information about Mrs. Hale, the Mother of the American Thanksgiving, please see: Sarah Josepha Hale.

One had to watch the weather and be careful which vehicle to choose. The famous Sarah Josepha Buell Hale’s husband, David, got caught in a sudden snowstorm in the next town over from where they lived in Newport, NH. Having been very chilled, he became so ill, he died of pneumonia. That disease of the lungs is caused by a bacterial infection, although I believe there is also a counterpart known as viral pneumonia.

Researchers today have experimented to see if there is a connection between becoming very cold and wet and getting sick. If I remember correctly, they did not see a link, in clinical studies. However, sometimes there is much more to old “wive’s tales,” than one might imagine. The fact remains that the man was chilled, and before anyone could say, “Jack, Sprat,” he was dead.

Back to snow … Whether or not we have snow is pretty inconsequential for most local people, most of whom are not thrilled about driving in it or shoveling it. Those who own ski resorts and those who like to ski or snowboard are the folks who are ecstatic at the first hint of a large snowstorm. New Hampshire’s economy is really stricken in years when we have little or no snow. Now, however, they make man-made snow, and that helps, but only to a certain extent.

Our main concern is always in having a “White Christmas.” There is something totally magical about snow and snowflakes. Whether one crochets snowflakes or re-creates their patterns on a quilt, we just love their symmetry and the fact that they all appear to be different in construction. In March, during maple sugaring time, it is a New England custom to pour maple syrup on the snow and eat it.

Wishing you “white” in the near future. If you live in the desert, you have our sympathies, but, like Bing Crosby, you can always dream of snow.

Patricia Cummings

The C.C.C.

Sunday, November 16th, 2008

A recent magazine article that I wrote featured a C.C.C. Mother pillow, owned by a retired professor who lent it to us for the purpose of photography. You ask, “What is the C.C.C.?” The Civilian Conservation Corps was an organization for young men during the Great Depression. They accomplished all kinds of feats such as planting trees, pruning and maintaining tree plantations, building bridges, roads, and buildings, and doing much more.

This was a “make work” type of program under the FDR administration, designed to provide employment. Men had to meet certain qualifications and be of good moral character to join. They were paid, but most of their allotment was sent home, leaving them with a small amount for personal spending in the camp store.

In the state of New Hampshire, there were quite a few C.C.C. camps. I was thrilled to visit the museum associated with one of them at what is now called Bear Brook State Park. My association with the park goes back to when I was three years old. In the family album, there are photos of my brother and I, and my sister and I, on the public beach there. Later, I served as an assistant cook at summer 4-H camp, when I was in high school, and another year, I was a Camp Counselor. In high school, I camped with my parents in another area of the park, and when I was very small, I climbed the Fire Tower at the Park, with my Dad.

I recently learned that the main public pond at Bear Brook was excavated by C.C.C. members with picks and axes. If one swims in the water in a bathing suit with a white lining, that lining will turn red. This can be attributed to the underlying tree roots at the bottom of the man-made, spring fed pond. They leach tannic acid, a harmless ingredient (to humans) also found in tea.

The beautiful bathhouse there was built with granite stones, quarried in nearby Hooksett, and set together by the C.C.C.

Lately, learning more about the C.C.C. has been of great interest to me. When I received more photos of “Mother” pillows, etc. from an Interpretive Specialist for the National Parks Service, I was even more intrigued. You can see photos and descriptions of those textile on our website.

Whenever I mention the initials “C.C.C.” to anyone my age, no one knows what I mean. I have to explain. This was a Depression Era, stop-gap measure, to counteract the effects of poverty.

Yesterday, in speaking to an international conference, President Bush stated that if something is not done about the economy, we could go into a Depression greater than the Great Depression. That is an upsetting thought, and I think that most of us feel at the mercy of those who have the majority of wealth in America. We want those individuals to figure out a problem that “the little guy” did not cause.

Sometimes, we have to look back before we can look ahead. History is so important, and learning from the past is doubly so, because if no meaningful connections are made, then we have not gained anything. We will just keep repeating wrong decisions that cost lives, money, and quality of existence, again and again.

The C.C.C. tells a great story of America. We always rise to the cause and do what needs to be done, in good times and bad. With the right attitudes and some elbow grease, we will get through the current economic crisis. The young men of the C.C.C. may not be recognized today, in a society who has forgotten the hardship lessons of America’s past, in the wake of prosperity. The work of these young, unmarried men was vital to feeding their families of origin, at the time. The organization lasted from the early 1930s to 1942, and many of the men went off to serve in World War II, having been given confidence and self-discipline by their experiences in the Civilian Conservation Corps, a para-militaristic organization. When we look to the early twentieth century, we see many who sacrificed, again and again. We could all take a lesson.

With best wishes,

Patricia Cummings

A Pitbull with Lipstick On

Sunday, November 16th, 2008

Anyone who knows me, knows that I adore learning. My husband and I are lifelong learners, even though it has been years since we were sitting in classrooms to earn degrees.

Sometimes I wonder what people are learning these days, and even if anyone is learning anything anymore. That thought is based partially on the way that news reporters on television do not seem to know even the correct pronunciation of words.

Lately, so-called “educated” individuals cannot write well, cannot speak well, and cannot form sentences that are not disjointed, unconnected, and make one wonder what they are trying to say, anyhow. The most egregious example of someone who speaks in this way, consistently, has had enough press lately, so I need not provide a name.

I have never been a “hockey mom,” nor cavorted (for lack of a better word) with “Joe, the Plumber,” but I think that without too much trouble I might fall into the category of a quilt historian who is like a “Pitbull with lipstick on.”

There’s just one glitch in the analogy. I don’t usually wear lipstick. However, I do try to adhere to the truth, and I do care about the truth. I try to uphold the truth, even if telling the truth makes someone else uneasy, or rocks the proverbial boat, and even if what I say is misconstrued as not being “nice.” I have no interest in being “nice,” if “nice” means being quiet about someone’s falsehoods and errors. When the meadow muffins start piling up, it’s time to get out the shovel.

There are all sorts of lies: inadvertent misrepresentations, half-truths, lies of convenience, lies to cover up, lies because someone did not take the time to seek the truth (i.e. sloppy scholarship). No matter how you cut the mustard, these are all lies. If you are not telling the truth, then … you are telling a lie. Makes sense to me.

Having worn this subject thin, I will give it a rest, as full of disgust as I am at a particular situation involving misstatements. I will go “lie” in my bed, to ponder what makes people tick, before I count sheep with ticks. I guess a motivator for some individuals is money. Another motivator is social standing or prestige. I am just content with the truth, simple as I am. Now, is the truth really too much to ask?

Patricia Cummings

New Jersey Remembers WWII

Saturday, November 15th, 2008

A reader has alerted me to this video that celebrates New Jersey soldiers’ contributions and experiences in World War II. Click on “Watch the Entire Show.” Her 85 year old husband is one of the men interviewed. I am so happy to share this link with you. I was riveted, watching this production, earlier this morning.

Patricia Cummings