Archive for July, 2007

New Hampshire “Rocks”

Saturday, July 14th, 2007

I feel so lucky to be living in New Hampshire. We are a small state filled with big hearts and giant minds and lots of creativity. From the so-called “Granite Hills” which are really not “hills” at all but very adequately-sized mountains, to the pebbles on the sands of Hampton Beach, Rye Beach, or Salisbury Beach, we “rock” and we are a people with which to be reckoned.

New Englanders, in general, are known for their independent spirit, their entrepreneurial skills, and their depth of creative perception. After all, such hearty souls as Daniel Webster, William Loeb, and Robert Frost, all lived here. They all spoke their minds, and I am sure that kind of attitude has rubbed off on a lot of us, including me! Sculptors, painters, novelists and many other creative souls have called this state, “home.”

Having been “invaded” many times before, by the quebecois who came to work in the mills from the Canadian countryside, and the Irishmen who made their way north, from the port of Boston, seeking freedom from discrimination, other ethnic groups have also molded New Hampshire into a proverbial “melting pot.”

In the capitol city of Concord, alone, one can choose to eat at a dozen or more Chinese restaurants, or perhaps go to an Australian one, or to a Japanese Sushi Bar, or to the many Greek and/or Italian restaurants in the city, not to mention several Mexican ones. Yes, the Capitol is not short of eateries, of all descriptions. Some serve “real” NH maple syrup!

You know, growing up in a small town, (where I was not born), I learned that the definition of a “newcomer” is someone whose family has not lived in town for a span of several generations. I found out that my family was accepted, but only marginally so. We were, after all, city people. The men in the family did not spit into a spitoon, nor smoke cigars, whether Cuban or not. They had to learn to plow a field but used a tractor, not a team of horses.

The most amazing story I ever heard, as a teenager, was that of Ozra “Ozzie” Dutton. He lived alone on a farm and he kept animals, including steers (or were they bulls?). At any rate, one day, Ozra was gored by one of these animals and the horn ripped up his stomach in a bad way. He hitched up his horses to a wagon, after having tied a towel around his waist, and he drove to the nearest hospital, which, at that time, was Exeter Hospital, a 45 minute drive by car, today.

The doctors fixed him up, and he got back in his wagon, drove his horses  home, and lived to be in his nineties. That is the kind of country character that is to me quintessentially New England.

Truth be known, the natives of New Hampshire are tough as nails. The climate makes us that way, and the example that our neighbors set only solidifies our resolve to conquer the elements, tame the beasts, and put the world (or your teeth?) on edge with our far-reaching thoughts.

I knew there was a reason why politicians and their advocates come knocking on our “doors” so often, come election time. They are waiting and hoping for an endorsement. The theory seems to be the same one from a TV cereal commercial: “If Mikey likes it, it has to be good!” If New Hampshire approves, the politician just might be a “shoo-in” for the next president!

I simply reiterate: New Hampshire “rocks!”

Patricia Cummings

Myrtie’s Cactus: A Message of Hope

Saturday, July 14th, 2007

Myrtie's Cactus

photo by James Cummings

The “Christmas Cactus” you see here, doesn’t know how to tell time. You see, it blooms at least twice a year, with huge pink blossoms that delight everyone who views it. This picture of it was taken several years ago and the plant has grown even more huge, in the meantime. Why am I showing this to you now? Well, as always, there is a story, and a lesson to be learned.

I call this plant, “Myrtie’s Cactus.” One single segment of another plant was all that was needed to create this one. Let me tell you about an incident. My mother was a patient at a nursing home. After having had a single room during the first part of her care there, she graduated to another room, with a roommate. One day, when I was visiting her, an aide had just brought in a lovely cactus plant for my mother’s roommate, Myrtle. In so doing, she brushed the plant against something, perhaps the doorway, and a segment fell to the ground. Mother said, “Pick that up, Patty, and bring it home. I’m sure you can root it and grow another plant.”

Well, I had started plants before from “slips” of other plants, but never from one tiny segment of a plant. I doubted that I could root it, but I thought I’d try. You can see the result!

Sometimes when life seems most hopeless, and it seems impossible to succeed at a given task, we can surprise ourselves, if we only take a “can do” attitude. Of course, without water and soil and sun and the will of the Great Unknown, the plant segment would not have grown and bloomed again and again.

Isn’t it great when we have someone who believes in us? Sometimes, the vision of our potential, as seen through the eyes of others, is a real impetus to helping us reach our own goals. Luckily, I have had many mentors in my life. My first mentor, in needlework, was my own mother.

I smile when I see this cactus. It is growing unwieldy like a child who has gotten too tall for his pants. To me, the plant represents the continuation of life, against all odds, and I am grateful for the lesson.

Patricia Cummings

The Endless Circle of Needlework Preferences

Friday, July 13th, 2007

Quilting, over time, has experienced ebbs and wanes. The boom periods that most quilt historians acknowledge are the 1880s (after the economic downturn of the 1870s), the 1930s (during the Great Depression), and the 1970s onward, to the present. Some of us have wondered when the bubble would burst again and quilting would either disappear for awhile or undergo a major transformation.

The signs are there for all of the needle arts. Major organized groups are experiencing a smaller number of membership renewals. Antique quilts are no longer commanding “top dollar” – just because they are “old.” Crocheting seems to be experiencing a lull. Tatting is virtually invisible. Needlepunch has enjoyed a brief revival, but that does not seem to be going strong. Most online lists for quilting, its history, and needlework, in general, appear to have few posts.

Part of the problem with the Quilt Industry is what I call the Bandwagon Effect. If someone is selling a product and appears to be making money doing so, then everyone else wants a part of the action. Anything that looks “hot” is jumped on and very shortly, whatever it is that is being sold is ubiquitous (appears everywhere.) Magazine titles are constantly coming and going, literally. Book publishers for needlework and quilt titles, especially quilt history and textile history, are fewer in number and “less willing to take a chance” on new titles, in an already glutted market. Magazines are becoming thinner and thinner and more loaded with advertisements, as those with something to sell compete in the marketplace.

The trend seems to be going toward “quilt art,” a hard-to-define genre where anything “goes” and where the quality of work is not generally the main consideration; expressionism is.

As I’ve said many times before, there is room for all of us, and that includes “Daddy.” Remember the show, “Make Room for Daddy?” Well, in some cases, Daddy is a quilter. Quilting is an international affair, and a cross-gender one, too. We all have much to bring to the table.

I don’t foresee the total eradication of quilting activities any time soon, but I just can’t help but wonder if we won’t all smother under the glut of products generated for a craft/ or an art, depending on your viewpoint, that traditionally has been a very simple task involving cloth, designs, a needle, and thread.

There are traditionalists who enjoy revisiting the old techniques. Others want to create new trends. In trying to reinvent the wheel, some of us are losing our way and forgetting the very things that brought us to this point. I hope that we will all look closely at what we are doing, and assess why we are making the choices we do. For it is only in understanding our own motivations that we can truly represent ourselves in our quilts and needlework.

Patricia Cummings

When You Can’t Go Home Again

Thursday, July 12th, 2007

Occasionally, when I am in a nostalgic mood, and we are in the area, we ride past the farm where I grew up and where my mother continued to live, until she could live there no longer. Now, in the field where I once rode my horses, there is an elaborate mini-mansion with a four car garage. In the house where I once lived, another family resides.

The barns where I kept Bantam chickens, a rabbit, and my horses, and sometimes a few heifers, have been completely torn down. I have memories of tossing and stacking 100 lb. bales of hay into the hayloft, summers, when I barely weighed that myself. Now, that IS a distant memory.

While I was in Jr. High, I held hands with my boyfriend, in same hayloft, both of us way too shy to do anything but that. I remember my big brother, being nervous about the “situation” as if it were a federal crime to hold hands, and shooing my would-be suitor home. As I recall, he never came back.

A vivid recollection are the berries on the farm, among them the high bush blueberries that grew along a stonewall. If I collected enough of them, Mum would make blueberry muffins. Blackberry bushes grew wild along same stone wall, and she would make a pie, all the while complaining about the large seeds in the berries. I remember the low-growing, wild strawberry plants that produced the sweetest berries known to man. I recall the huge “tire” that I stepped on while picking those berries. It turned out to be a six foot long, black snake that slithered off into the field, in search of field mice.

Summer days were carefree…mostly…until the day that my parents were both at work in the city, and my brother threw a bomb down a woodchuck hole, and that started a fire. In my mind’s eye, I can see the local firetrucks skittering across the field to the other side of it, but being able to quickly dowse the fire. I believed I called them on the phone in our country kitchen.

Early in the morning, my brother and I would get up to go watch the deer that would gather, “just over the knoll,” lending new meaning to the name of the town, “Deerfield.”

After I was married to Jim, my mother often would call and say that she had baked or cooked something luscious, such as her Chicken Casserole or an Apple Pie, or a cake, and she’d invite us down. She was a very good cook and baker, so it was hard to refuse.

It’s funny how the mind works. No matter what situation we find ourselves in, bad or good, we think that it will last forever. Perhaps we don’t realize that the bad times could end, as well as the good times. We prefer not to think about our days being numbered, but they are, whether or not we acknowledge the fact.

My mother’s problems, that led to her eventual demise, began early one morning with a stranger’s voice, (an EMT) calling me on the phone to say that she had experienced a heart attack. She was taken to the hospital, and was in and out of other hospitals and nursing facilities until she finally died several years ago. She never had the chance to go “home again.” The undone dishes and laundry, the housecleaning that needed care, the unpaid bills, and all of her worldly concerns were left to others to administer.

Today, I am thinking about people whose homes have been blown away in tornadoes, or washed out to sea, or lost in a fire. Those people cannot go home, any more than I can. You see them on television, sifting through rubble, trying to recover a photo or some momento from the past, something, anything that is representative of their past lives.

The fact of the matter is that none of us can “go home again” when our loved ones are no longer there, even when the physical structure is, indeed, in place. Home is wherever we are surrounded by love. “Home is where we hang our hat,” as they say. Sometimes, the love we have experienced in LIFE can only be re-visited, in memory.

Patricia Cummings

Terrorists Come in All Forms

Wednesday, July 11th, 2007

Today, I am a little on edge. Someone close to me is hopping “across the pond,” as they say, for a few days. With all of the recent problems with terrorism in other countries, I am not happy about the situation. London has been on high alert, as well it should be. Most Londoners are not terrorists but in their midst, there are those who would do evil, whenever they can.

“Gossips,” an embellished re-creation of an 1830 quilt block.

Homeland Terrorists, Gossips, and Snipes

Often, it is easy to forget that most people are decent and caring individuals. Yes, some do have agendas…mainly, for their own advancement.

Terrorism, on a less grand scale, begins on the Internet and is particularly rampant on mailing lists that involve mostly women. Half the time, they do not bother to get their facts straight before attacking, belittling, engaging in name calling, or otherwise acting like…well…women!

The behavior is nothing new and should not be surprising. In contrast, it is one of the reasons why I wrote the “Why I Like Men” essay a short time ago, on this Blog.

Every time I think of the kind of terrorist woman described above, I envision a little, old, crooked lady with a menacing look on her face, holding a needle in the air, in a threatening manner. The mental image amuses me.

Although I shall not be sharing the names of people whom I’ve encountered lately who have left a sour taste in my mouth, I KNOW who you are, and furthermore, YOU know who you are. Why not quit the silliness of what I call “social posturing”? People who act in such ways only make themselves look like a horse’s patootie.

That is my VERY opinionated view this morning. For all the good folks who happen to have read this rant, I say, “Keep doing what is right.” It doesn’t matter what you do, as long as you do it for the right reasons. For me, sharing information is my chosen goal. Information is Education, and Education is Enlightenment and Understanding. With any luck, I will continue to try to bring education, enlightenment and understanding to all of my writings, for a good while longer.

Patricia Cummings

“Coming in from out of the rain”…more flowers for you!

Tuesday, July 10th, 2007

At my request, Jim slogged around the garden, taking more photos, between thunderstorms yesterday. The first flower is one of our favorites, and it was one of those unidentified perennials in our midst, until recently. Jim is waiting until such a time as the interesting white spider that frequents this plant appears.
Spirea

The second flower, seen below, is a pink Hollyhock, that grew from seeds sent by a dear friend in Massachusetts.

Pink Hollyhock

The third plant that comes back every year is called Echinacea, the root of many herbal remedies.

Echinacea

These look more scraggly than usual….

The photo below tells the story of our summer: we have had too little time to weed. In spite of that, a patch of Gloriosa Daisies that are so ubiquitous in our yard, are blooming amid the grass and the Hosta foliage plants.

Gloriosa Daisies

Our final picture of the day: a pink, old-fashioned, climbing rose bush.

Pink, Old-Fashioned, Climbing Rose

All photo taken by Jim Cummings/ all photo edits by Pat Cummings.

Just when you think you’ve heard it all…

Monday, July 9th, 2007

The latest news coming out of my former place of residence, Manchester, NH, is that a man, dressed as a tree, attempted to rob a bank. He did not do such a good job of disguising himself though, as a surveillance camera caught his image. Someone who knew him revealed his identity and he was arrested.

That incident should be written down somewhere, for posterity, (in the Guinness Book of Records?), don’t you think? It could be used as a demonstration model to teach children what NOT to do, if thinking of committing such a crime. Or else, a statement could be made that “Crime doesn’t pay,” and here’s proof.

The media is having a heyday with this one. Of course, the bank was a branch location. “The police were stumped.” You get the drift. In sharing this story with quilters, perhaps I am “barking up the wrong tree!”

Seems like the town where I grew up is going to heck in a hand basket with increased crime: stabbings, prostitution, shootings, muggings, etc. Situated just thirty minutes up the road a piece, the city where I currently live is virtually crime-free. Mostly all of the (7,000 or so?) criminals who live here are behind bars at the State Prison. We haven’t heard of any attempted bank robberies recently and hope to keep it that way. I must say that dressing up in tree branches is a creative approach to the task of bank robbing, but perhaps not one that will “catch on” any time soon, as it didn’t work.

Let’s hope the next person we see with tree branches encircling his head will be some poor soul just trying to celebrate Halloween!

News from the Wright Museum – Press Release by Director

Monday, July 9th, 2007

Contact: Mark Foynes
mark.foynes@wrightmuseum.org

July 9, 2007

Ride in a WWII Vehicle at the Wright Museum

10th Annual Family Day Set for Sunday, July 15

Wright Museum Command Car

Photo courtesy of the Wright Museum

WOLFEBORO–Youngsters and the young at heart will enjoy a day of special activities, food, and gallery tours at the Wright Museum’s annual Family Day, which will take place on Sunday, July 15 from 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. The museum, whose brick facade prominently features a WWII tank, is a local Wolfeboro (NH) landmark, located at 77 Center St. (Route 28).

While uniformed re-enactors, face painting, balloons, special lectures, and a barbeque lunch make the event enjoyable, the real draw is the unique opportunity to ride in one of the Wright Museum’s vintage WWII vehicles.

Re-enactor Display

Photo courtesy of the Wright Museum

“Family Day at the Wright Museum gives visitors of all ages a chance to experience American history in a way that is both educational and a whole lot of fun,” said museum director Mark Foynes.

Foynes, who has worked in museums for the past 11 years, notes that this kind of an event is truly unique since most kinds of artifacts are, by necessity, hands-off, “Unlike many kinds of traditional museum collections, vehicles need to be driven periodically, or else they begin to slowly die–think about what would happen if you didn’t start your car for a couple of years and you’ll know what I mean.”

Foynes notes that this is a happy coincidence since it gives the Wright Museum a chance to make history come alive in a way that traditional exhibits and school textbooks cannot. Another feature of Family Day that brings the past to life is the chance to enjoy demonstrations by uniformed re-enactors who discuss their authentic WWII equipment.

Visitors will also meet “Rosie the Riveter,” and learn about the contributions of women on the home front. During WWII, the unprecedented demand for men to fight on the frontlines required that women often fill the jobs their husbands and brothers left behind. The composite “Rosie” character came to be emblematic of all women’s efforts in the wartime economy.

Admission to the Wright Museum’s Family Day event is $10 per person and includes a barbeque lunch and two vehicle rides around Wolfeboro; children under five are admitted free. Additional Family Day activities include: 1940s music and a live remote broadcast by WASR; book signings by local authors; and a pair of special lectures by museum librarian David Warren on Old Time Radio and the sinking of the Oriskany. Family Day will also kick off a book sale whose proceeds will benefit Wright Museum programs. This special event is made possible, in part, through the donations of local businesses including Wolfetrap, Irving Oil, Pronto Market, Hunter’s IGA, and Bradley’s Hardware. For more information or directions call (603) 569-1212, or visit www.wrightmuseum.org

The Wright Museum is a one-of-a-kind non-profit institution dedicated to preserving and sharing the stories of America’s Greatest Generation. with its vast collection of fully-operational military vehicles and extensive exhibits relating to the American Home Front, the Wright Museum is a member-supported national treasure located right here in New Hampshire. In the words of Senator Bob Dole, “The Wright Museum tells the story of (a) great national achievement, a story that, more than ever, today’s generation of Americans–and especially our young people–need to understand and appreciate.

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The Importance of Recording Family History

Saturday, July 7th, 2007

If you have a family member who still has his or her faculties and can remember some things, it might be a good idea to interview the person, and record that interview, or take notes. How quickly information gets lost! Sometimes, after an older person dies, it is difficult for family members to reconstruct times past, and even to understand who was related to whom, in the family. Not much time is needed for this loss of comprehension to occur.

Recently, as I said in a previous post, several family members have been searching for genealogical information. My son, in particular, has been looking for his “roots,” especially now that he is a father, too. I can help by providing what I know.

As a result of his research, I am finding out that there is much that I did not know. Sociologically-speaking, some of the information about our forebears is very surprising, and paints a picture of living conditions in New England during the mill years. Since both sides of the family were immigrants during the nineteenth century, a number of them were mill workers, primarily in textile factories.

I think that we better understand ourselves when we know the people who went before us. Without even having known some of ancestors, I can see that I hold their values, sometimes their opinions (as reported), their work ethic, and most especially, the esteem for which they held Education.

I am always happy when the younger generation wants to know what it was like to live at a certain time period. While Americans are influenced by their own immediate surroundings and affiliations, we are also swayed to some degree by popular culture, at any given time. That includes objects of material culture and music. Music has been a terrific bridge that connects the generations.

“Art is long, life is short.”

The “things” we have in this life do not matter in the long run. Your Mercedes will rust, your health will deteriorate, and people you love very much will die. We only have today, nothing more. Believe in something more than YOU because, believe me, you are not “it.” You are a piece of the puzzle, and a cog in the wheel of life. You will do your work, and then, there will be no more work for you to do. So, make the most of each day. Every breath is not yours to take, save not for the grace of your Maker. In time, you, too, will be a name on the chart of the Family Tree, if you are lucky. If you have done something memorable, perhaps someone will remember your works. Just recall the ever-repeated words in song: “We are but dust in the wind.”

Patricia Cummings

More Flowers…Just for You

Thursday, July 5th, 2007

When I posted Jim’s flower photos the other day, I received requests for more. So, I asked him to take another walk around our yard and provide some more photos.

Simplicity Rose

photo by James Cummings

The first is a Simplicity Rose blossom, from a group of roses that I bought years ago from the Jackson Perkins rose company. All but two of the rose bushes have now converted themselves into their original root stock, the Rugosa Rose, an example of which we showed you last time.

White Hydrangea bush

White Hydrangeas were here forever, probably planted by our home’s former owner, who was quite the gardener. Funny, I always thought this bush was called the “St. Johnsbury Bush.” The connection is that two of my aunts and my grandmother lived for a time in St. Johnsbury, VT where one of my aunts taught school. The bush grew there, in their yard, and they had always referred to it as “you know, the St. Johnsbury Bush!”

White Bellflower

Last time, we showed you the blue version of the Bellflower. Here is a white one.

Another Gloriosa Daisy

Finally, Jim took another photo of a Gloriosa Daisy. These mutate into all kinds of wonderful combinations of colors and are a sturdy plant that returns year after year, if not always in the same place!

Pat

President Calvin Coolidge Historic Site on the 4th

Thursday, July 5th, 2007

Jim and I trekked up to Plymouth Notch, Vermont on the Fourth of July to celebrate the birthday of the only U.S. president born on the Fourth, July 4, 1872, to be exact. When we arrived the honor guard was already assembling and the smell of chicken barbeque was faintly in the air.

Calvin Coolidge Historic site - 2007

Here is a second photo of the honor guard getting ready to march:

before the parade

Beautiful wreath to be laid at the grave on Calvin Coolidge, our 29th president.

Part of the gala event was horse pulled wagon rides.

Wagon ride

Young and old alike enjoy a trip around the quaint village of Plymouth Notch Vermont, a small hillside hamlet that sent a president to Washington, upon the death of President Harding.

We thoroughly enjoyed being at the historic site and milling about the new exhibits in the main building. On the way home to New Hampshire, I caught glimpse of two sights that I asked Jim to photograph.

a pond at a private residence has friendly frogs
We like friendly frogs!

I spotted a Great Blue Heron, standing on a rock in a brook of low depth.

Great Blue Heron

This magnificent bird also spotted Jim and flew off, just after this photo was shot.

We had a marvelous day, as usual, in Vermont. All photos were taken by Jim Cummings; all photo edits were done by Pat Cummings. No doubt about it: we are a team!

Have a happy day after the 4th!

Wright Museum Talk Features World War II Artifacts

Thursday, July 5th, 2007

The Wright Museum, the only museum in the country that is devoted to storing artifacts of the homefront, from World War II, began its Summer Lecture series on June 26 with a talk about “New Hampshire Notables,” by John Clayton, Columnist with the New Hampshire Union Leader newspaper.

Jim and I were fortunate to be able to attend the July 3, 2007 lecture provided by Mark Foynes, Wright Museum Executive Director. He entitled his talk, “Treasures of the Wright Museum.” In his introductory remarks, Foynes mentioned that in his eleven years of working with museums, he is often asked the question, “How much is it worth?”

In his opinion, the artifacts kept by museums are price-less, so valuable, and sometimes so rare, one cannot even begin to put a monetary value on the item. He makes the important point that objects of material culture must be looked at within a greater context and that they contribute to our understanding of History.

Seabee logo

The “Seabee” mascot, a symbol that often shows up on military textiles

Mark Foynes proceeded to show the enthralled audience some of his favorite items held in public trust, by the museum that was begun by the late David Wright. Of course, the museum may be best known for its arsenal of still-operational World War II tanks, including one of three that is a survivor of the fight at the Bridge Remagen. However, it is in the personal artifacts that have been donated to the museum that another side of “The War,” as Ken Burns calls it, is told, and those items were the focus of Foynes’ talk.

As is the same for most museums, space is somewhat limited, although a huge addition was made to the museum’s original building size. The delightful items that Foynes shared did, indeed, have many accompanying, fascinating stories. Wish you had been there!
The wonderful series of lectures will continue:

July 10 – 7 p.m. – E.E. Cummings, Silver Lake and the Second World War,” a presentation of artwork and personal memorabilia from the famous poet, and a talk by Carol Batchelder & Ruth Shackford.

July 17 – 7 p.m. – “The Harbor Fortifications on the Island of Corregidor,” Nelson H. Lawry, author and military historian.

July 24, 7 p.m. – “The Story of the New Hampshire Veterans Cemetery,” Roger E. Desjardins, Cemetery Director.

July 31, 7 p.m. – “Rosie the Riveter: Myths, Misconceptions, and an American Icon,” James J. Kimble, Assistant Professor, Seton Hall University

August 7, 7 p.m. – “New Hampshire Aviation: The WWII Years,” George Comtois, NH Aviation Historical Society

August 14, 7 p.m. – “A Memoir of Bataan and Beyond,” Mike Pride, Co-Author of Too Dead to Die & William Onufry, Bataan Survivor

August 21, 7 p.m. – “The Portsmouth Naval Shipyard, 1800-2000,” Richard Winslow III, Special Collections Librarian, Portsmouth Public Library

August 28, 7 p.m. – “WWII Infantrymen in Europe: A Soldier’s Eye View,” Russell Kirby, Independent Scholar and Collector of WWII Militaria
Admission to any of these events is $5. for non-members. Free admission for Wright Museum members. Pre-registration required. Space is limited. For more information, please call 603 569-1212.

As members of the museum, we would like to personally thank Mark Foynes for the terrific work he is doing as the new Director.

Pat and Jim Cummings

What Makes a Song a Keeper?

Tuesday, July 3rd, 2007

What makes certain songs our favorites? What makes them last for centuries? Why do you like certain songs?

Like anyone else, I have certain songs that I like, that are familiar, and that I have personally sung since I was a teenager – which is a distant time, for me.

Yesterday, I recorded two additional songs, and the other day, I recorded a third, for the website’s Song Playlist. In a patriotic mood, as always, I sang “It’s a Grand Old Flag.” That song is accessible only from the front home page, at the moment. That song is easy to sing and gets us all in the mood for the flag waving spirit of the 4th of July, when we celebrate Independence Day.

The second song is “Mary Had A Baby.” I like the chord progression on this one and even the inevitable squeakiness of the “slides” as my fingers navigate the frets of the guitar. This song is a folksy one with a somewhat cryptic message. One wonders what the words “the people are a comin’ and the train done gone” really have to do with the Virgin giving birth. Yet, it is a fun song to play and sing.

The third song I added is “Mary Hamilton.” This is a Scottish ballad that poetically recounts “Mary” having a baby after being impregnated by the King. She is sent to the gallows after she tries to hide the fact that she sent her baby “out to sea” – “that he might sink or he might swim, but he’d never come back to me.” The song is a wordy ballad, but it tells a story, and we all love stories, particularly those with human interest and intrigue.

I carefully choose the songs to feature on my website. People from around the world, who are not native speakers of English, have found them useful, as well as my recitation of poetry on the site. Both forms of language help people to hear living language as it is spoken and sung. That was my intent, as well as bringing traditional folk music to the forefront of our memory again.

Oh, yes, I also recorded another song in Spanish, Ven Mi Amor. “Come my love and we will wander through the world without stopping…until we find the final place of love.”

Some songs evoke a memory. For me, whenever I hear Judy Collin’s “Send in the Clowns,” I remember that it was my mother’s favorite song at a time when my father was dying, laying paralyzed with a spinal tumor. The words “One who is tearing around, one who can’t move…send in the clowns,” tell it all. The absurdity of it all. The strange turns of life.

However, songs help us to remember the happy times, too. Broadway tunes are good for that. Songs inspire. They make us cry. They make us feel more holy. Some are funny. Some validate who we are, as a people. Some songs unite; some songs divide. Some are not worth having been written, and some linger on in our collective memory.

Wishing you a song in your heart.

Have a great day! ¡Que pasen Uds. un buen día!

Patricia

Genealogy – We All Come From Somewhere

Monday, July 2nd, 2007

Genealogical studies are a current preoccupation and hobby with many Americans. As life here becomes more demanding and complex, we want to know our roots. Where did we come from and how many names of relatives can we find?

There are a number of software programs to help find information, and there are Internet resources. Family letters can be a vital source of information. They often include the reason someone died, and that is important for those who are interested in compiling a medical genealogy. If you know to what diseases your ancestors succumbed, there may be risk factors that could be controlled so as to lessen the chance of your demise from the same ailment. Certain illnesses seem to be passed down through genetic material: diabetes, hemophilia, a proclivity toward developing cancer, and other diseases.

Sometimes, it is simply wonderful that someone has not discarded documents such as wedding invitations, birth announcements, newspaper clips of obituaries, driver’s licenses, tax records, and all sorts of other ephemera that can help to establish factual information. For example, I am happy that my mother saved so many obituaries, and old letters from people she left down south in Georgia and in Florida when she came north on the train, at the age of five.

Several members of my family are actively engaged in researching genealogy. It is just amazing the amount of information they are turning up. Census records are a great resource. Of course, in doing some research, some skeletons in the family closet are bound to show up. In larger families, that situation is even worse, as there are more people to which something could have gone wrong and it did.

What is even more fun is when one can connect the dots to match up a name, birth date, date of immigration, service records, places where a person lived, their photo(s), a list of their children and descendants, a knowledge of their occupation, etc.

I know that I have a lot of information about my family that no one else knows. I hope to be able to put that in writing or to verbally share that with family members before I forget some of it. Family information can easily be misinterpreted, misremembered, or misunderstood and this is how myths get started. Don’t believe anything without documentation. For example, if someone tells you that great-grandma made a quilt before the Civil War and she died in the 1940s and the fabrics in the quilt are from the 1970s, then it is pretty sure clue that great grandma did not make the quilt.

I think that genealogy is a fun project, especially when it leads to living cousins in other countries, and to nice people one has not known before. My family is huge and spread all over the globe. So, that makes it a challenge to figure out the whole situation.

Have fun shaking the apples out of your “family tree.”

Pat